For whatever reason, you’ve had to schedule a c-section delivery date. It is not what you planned, but birth often doesn’t play by the “birth plan rules” we set. So here are a few things you can do to ensure that your cesarean birth is as peaceful and wonderful as a vaginal birth.
1. Get a doula! If you don’t already have a doula, it is time to hire one! I know, we all think that doula’s are only helpful for natural vaginal labors, but it turns out that doula’s play a very big role in assisting cesarean births as well! Your doula will walk you and your partner through a dry run of the surgery. She will discuss the details of the procedure, give your partner tips on how to support you during your cesarean birth and give you methods for creating a calm, beautiful birth space in the surgery room! A cesarean birth can be peaceful and beautiful!
2. Don’t ditch your birth plan! Don’t throw your birth plan out the window just yet, there are still so many choices and options available as part of a cesarean birth. It is time to get with your doula and create your cesarean birth plan. She can help you to create a reasonable plan that expresses those things that are important to your family while being practical in a cesarean birth space.
3. It’s not all about the birth! This may seem like an odd statement, but it’s true. We often spend so much time in childbirth education classes, learning about our labor options, and reading birth books, that we forget to prepare for our postpartum period. As it turns out, postpartum is often more challenging then labor! After all, that precious buddle doesn’t arrive with its unique “How To” guide! So begin to work with your doula to put together a strong postpartum care plan. It is important to ensure that you and your baby are properly supported and cared for both physically and emotionally during the entire the duration of your recovery. This is not the time to be Superwoman or to “Tough it out” ladies.
You hear it often, what more can you ask for if mama and baby are healthy. I say TONS! With our level of medical technology today, I call “Healthy Mama/Healthy Baby” the basic level of physical care. Of course there is always the possibility of the emergent situation, but IF that situation doesn’t manifest, why not shoot for the moon?
It is sensible to ask for appropriate family bonding considerations to be honored. It is reasonable to expect the proper emotional care from your provider during a cesarean birth. It is acceptable to request respect of your families overall birth experience. After all, it is the one day of your life that you will never forget!
By Bea Wilds, RYT, CLD. Bea is the Co-Owner of Enso. She is a labor doula, teaches prenatal yoga, plans blessingways, creates belly cast art and mama & me yoga.
This blog is not intended to be a source of medical information or advice. Please discuss all of your concerns with your care provider.