Last summer we spent a good amount of time sleeping in tents between a handful of trips to the mountains with friends and one awesome road trip where we camped our way through National Parks and Forests on our way to California and back. We have two little boys, Dylan (2.5) and Chase (6 months), and it has been so fun to bring them camping with us.
We started camping with Dylan when he was almost a year old, but Chase got his first taste of sleeping outdoors just three months after he was born (if you don't count when he was in my belly!) It's actually a lot easier than it sounds to camp with kids, and it is so great to see their faces lit by campfire light rather than the glow of the iPad screen that my two year old loves so much (I know, I know. . .)
There are a few different ways to camp, depending on your wants, needs, and experience. Whether you camp in an RV, at a campground with facilities, or need 4WD to get to your favorite spot to pitch a tent, I promise you that it is possible - and enjoyable - to bring the kids!
Our experience is mainly with car camping, where we drive out to a spot with no facilities, no trash bins, and no electricity, so that is what I will address in this post. People thought we were absolutely nuts when we took two weeks to drive and camp our way down to San Diego and back when Dylan was almost 2 and I was about 5 months pregnant, but it was without a doubt the best trip we have ever gone on, and we can't wait to do it again!
Some of the main concerns about camping with kids are the following:
Both of our kids are used to co-sleeping with us, so whether we are at home or in a tent, it doesn't make much difference. We have sleeping bags that zip together to make one large bed set up, so we just make sure to keep pillows and covers away from them, and have them on the outside of us. They are usually bundled up enough to not need the covers anyways. We have camped with friends who have brought a Pack 'N Play as well, and this was a great option for kids who are used to sleeping in a crib. There are also cots that you can buy that fit into most tents. Something to keep in mind, though, is that if you are breastfeeding and will need to throughout the night, try to wear clothes that make this easier for you! I have made the mistake of going to bed with lots of difficult layers to deal with, and when you're cold in the middle of the night, the last thing you want to have to do is peal off all of your layers or expose a bare shoulder or torso! Nursing tanks or bras and button down or zip up outer layers are a smart choice.
We try to bring as little extra as possible, so one of the things we decided we could live without was a high chair. This season, we may consider bringing our Bumbo with a tray seat so Chase can explore his food and we can have our hands free, but when it was just Dylan, one of us would hold him and feed him, or just give him something he can eat with his hands without needed a tray, like quesadillas, sandwiches, and pancakes.
Breastfeeding definitely makes life in the woods much easier, but it can absolutely be done with bottles and formula as well! As long as you make sure to bring plenty of water to not only drink and cook with, but also to use for boiling and cleaning, you can use bottles just as you would at home. You can heat a bottle by placing it in some water thats been heated on the camp stove or Jetboil, and be sure to bring plenty of paper towels, wipes, plastic bags, and anything else to keep things as clean and sanitary as possible.
We do tend to create much more trash when we have kids to wipe down and more things to keep clean, but we want to make sure to never leave any sign of camping left behind. There is nothing worse than finding a beautiful spot to camp, only to find the area littered with trash. Our set up includes having small plastic grocery bags in our tent for trash, and a big kitchen trash bag attached to our cooking table. All trash gets put in the trailer or in our vehicle when we turn in for the night, to keep animals away. When we leave, our trash comes with us. I suggest double bagging dirty diapers, and burning paper towels in the fire after they have been used.
The most important part of keeping kids safe in the woods is to keep an eye on them. Especially when camping near water, always make sure you know where they are at all times. We have put glow-in-the-dark bracelets or headlamps on the kids at night to keep track of them (around the fire, not when they go to bed), and always keep our bear spray nearby. Animals will keep their distance from a noisy crowd, which isn't a problem when you're camping with kids, however, you should have conversations with your children about respecting animals in the wild. We have also come across dead animals on our trips, which can actually be more dangerous than live ones. Be sure to check around the entire site, especially if you have pets camping with you. Don't forget to pack a fully-equipped first aid kit, so you could treat anything from cuts, bites, burns, breaks, or fevers. We were lucky enough to have a Special Forces-trained Army medic camping buddy, so we always knew we were in good hands! It wouldn't hurt to brush up on some basic first aid skills before heading out into the wilderness where the nearest hospital could be hours away. Other items that could help with keeping kids safe is having a Pack 'N Play or a portable play yard to help contain the kiddos.
I remember seeing something on Pinterest about camping with kids, and it showed a picture of a baby taking a bath in a big plastic storage bin. It was so cute, and I pinned it for future use, but I have never actually done it. Dirty kids are not the end of the world! I horrified my sister in law when I sent her a picture of my husband cleaning Dylan's feet with a baby wipe because we were absolutely filthy after 3 days on the road in 3 different (sandy) camping spots. But a little dirt doesn't hurt! However, if you are concerned about cleanliness or if you're kid is like mine and is a magnet for dirt, puddles, sticky foods, etc., you can do what is called a "field shower", which is what they do in the military when they are training or down range without access to showers, where you just wipe yourself down with a baby wipe. Have I mentioned to be sure to bring plenty of wipes? Hand sanitizer is always good to have on hand and kept by the food table to use after going to the bathroom or before eating/cooking.
Keeping Kids Entertained:
Don't! When we went camping with another family whose son is the same age as ours, we learned that if you bring toys, they will just fight over them. They are perfectly happy just playing with sticks and dirt and exploring. They run around, collect sticks for the fire, and best of all, they can just. . . be. Honestly! At home our son goes from toy to toy, or from electronic device to electronic device, but in the woods he can just sit by the fire and relax. It's amazing. Maybe when they get older we will start bringing card games, books, and a ball to play with, but at this age, they are so curious and will be plenty happy to just explore and eat s'mores. We have brought kites and frisbees, but I'm not sure who enjoyed those things more - the kids or the parents!
This may sound like a lot to think about but really, less is more when camping with the kids. Camping is all about sneaking away to a simple way of life for a couple of nights to de-stress, so try to be as easy going as possible when things don't go as smoothly as planned. We have had poor weather, set up camp in the dark, had diaper disasters, cuts, bruises, and forgot important things like OUR TENT and maple syrup for pancakes, but those are the trips where the best memories are made! Pick a camping style that will work for your family and let the kids get dirty and eat s'mores for breakfast, because kids in nature are happy kids!
I realize that it was weeks ago now, but did everyone have a lovely Mother’s Day? I sure did. It was nothing specially, really. I even made my own pancakes for breakfast and we ate leftovers for dinner. Our big outings were to Target and Whole Foods, but what made the day so special were all of the messages from friends and family, wishing me a happy first Mother’s Day, and of course getting to spend it with my wonderful husband and sweet baby boy. The chocolate covered strawberries didn’t hurt, either...
But those messages! I guess I never really realized how special a holiday like Mother’s Day was. Of course I love my own mother and would try to treat her extra special on this day, but now that I am a mother myself, the holiday meant so much more. I was overwhelmed by how much love and support came from other mother’s, whether they were close friends or those whose lives I only kept up with through the token Facebook status update. If they were a woman who loved a child, whether that child was still a new bundle of joy or all grown up and having babies of their own, or whether they carried and birthed that child or it came into their life by another way - I felt a connection to them, and they felt that same connection to me. This holiday apparently isn’t just for children and husbands to show appreciation for the mother’s in their lives. This holiday is for women to show love and respect for other women who share the experience of motherhood.
I guess you could say that every day is Mother’s Day at Enso Prenatal, then. That same love and support I felt from all over the internet last Sunday is what I feel each and every time I roll out my mat or attend a workshop in that studio space in Old Colorado City. It’s a pretty special place, which is why I love getting to teach yoga there and give back to what gave so much to me as I entered into this motherhood adventure.
Mama Yoga is a class that is very special to me, which is why I would love for you to join me on Wednesday evenings at 7:30pm and alternating Sunday afternoons at 2:30pm. This class is for mothers of all kinds, with children of all ages (although this one’s just for the mom’s, so leave the kiddos at home and practice in peace!). We combine the need for a physical practice (mothering is tough on the body!) with the need for physical connection (message boards don’t come close). The class can offer a little more of a challenge, and often will include some sort of breathing exercise or meditation, and then closes out with some restorative poses and a nice, long, uninterrupted savasana. When I took my first solo yoga class after having my son, it was so strange not to pause for multiple nursing or diaper changing breaks. I kind of missed the little rascal trying to nibble my toes, but being able to do more yoga and less baby-wrangling was a nice change! We still have our weekly Mom & Me Yoga dates, but having a date with myself (and other solo-mamas) is just as important for my body, mind, and soul. Plus, the promise of fifteen minutes of solid relaxation is reason enough to make it to class! I hope that you can join me sometime!
Mindy teaches Mama Yoga on Sundays and Wednesdays and Mom & Me on Mondays at 10:30.
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